I presume it hasn't yet occurred to you to simply stop doing horrible things. Forgiveness tends to go easier when it comes in response to an honest attempt at change.
But if it's a relationship you're pursuing from a completely utilitarian perspective, then that might not be a concern of yours in the first place.
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But if it's a relationship you're pursuing from a completely utilitarian perspective, then that might not be a concern of yours in the first place.